Friends,Acquaintances.....and Foes..?Nahh
Friends,can't live without 'em huh. That Saturday morning, I listened toLite FM,they called in a motivator,the topic that morning was onFRIENDSHIP. It's actually a weekly thing,the motivator who is also a psychologist by profession. But that day's topic strucked me,because normally they'll talk on financial issues,bankruptcy,which is good too,but kinda bored me.Friends,either u live with or without 'em. But for me,I must say I can'tlive without 'em.Well,most people would have said the same thing.
How shall i start...hmmm. Well, let's define friend;someone whom u can be acquainted with,share thoughts,not let u be alone at times in need.What makes u call a friend, a 'friend'...if its someone u barely know or meet,say you get to know him/her from another friend,that's an acquaintance.Acquaintance can turn into a friend once u get to know more about him/her.Yup,that's for sure.They are friends that u grew up with over the years. Childhood friends are the best,when we were little kiddos. In my kindegarten& primary years,going to school was one thing that i like most. Playing all sort of games together,going to mengaji classes was fun too where me and my frens end up gossiping and we have what u called this 'book' wer we wrote all kinda stuff,haha. But not like the one in Mean Girls the movie,haha.i still have the book! What a great way to rekindle back ur memories when we were lil kids.(note to NANA and nadia)
Friends do good deeds to one another. Undeniably,there are those who take their own friends for granted. That is just soooo not right to me. Maybe i have done it myself,without even realising it. To my dear friends,i am SORRY,really i am. It's damn hard to please people,trust me..being said so...to please ur friends. Mummy always tell me not to try to please everyone,but please yourself first...or else you'll end up being %^###@@!@**. HA ha ha
And there's also this one article i read a few months back,it was entitled Best Friend Bitch. Whoa,kinda harsh huh? She's the type who will come running after you when she is in deep sh*t! And also ditch you whenever she/he feels like it. What an idiot i must say,haha. I have yet to meet or know this kind of person. But have heard of some people who has that kind of perangai or nature of oneself. It's not worth it if you give in too much to one party,if he/she clearly don't really care or like i said take you for granted. It'd be better off being a loner,worst case. Just don't stay near to this kind of people. Not worth it.
How thankful I am to have such beautiful,beautiful friends.Well friends, without you people i may not be what i am today. May we strengthen our bond of friendship and give and take for all the things that come in our way as long as we live.
To Nana who's in Melaka~I miss you terribly T_T
To Diela~ Kapan mau ketemu lg?
To Alin~ May both of us continue to search for our soulmates! ahaks
To Ayu~ Always and forever will be my caring buddy!
To Afiura~My partner in crime..bile u nak kahwin???haha
To Fie~ Don't let your guard down,hon
To Leeza~ You are full of joy
To Hazira~ We need to catch up,badly! hehe
Btw,i haven't been posting for a looooooooong time.God knows when's the next post^_^
Till then,cheerios
Friends,can't live without 'em huh. That Saturday morning, I listened toLite FM,they called in a motivator,the topic that morning was onFRIENDSHIP. It's actually a weekly thing,the motivator who is also a psychologist by profession. But that day's topic strucked me,because normally they'll talk on financial issues,bankruptcy,which is good too,but kinda bored me.Friends,either u live with or without 'em. But for me,I must say I can'tlive without 'em.Well,most people would have said the same thing.
How shall i start...hmmm. Well, let's define friend;someone whom u can be acquainted with,share thoughts,not let u be alone at times in need.What makes u call a friend, a 'friend'...if its someone u barely know or meet,say you get to know him/her from another friend,that's an acquaintance.Acquaintance can turn into a friend once u get to know more about him/her.Yup,that's for sure.They are friends that u grew up with over the years. Childhood friends are the best,when we were little kiddos. In my kindegarten& primary years,going to school was one thing that i like most. Playing all sort of games together,going to mengaji classes was fun too where me and my frens end up gossiping and we have what u called this 'book' wer we wrote all kinda stuff,haha. But not like the one in Mean Girls the movie,haha.i still have the book! What a great way to rekindle back ur memories when we were lil kids.(note to NANA and nadia)
Friends do good deeds to one another. Undeniably,there are those who take their own friends for granted. That is just soooo not right to me. Maybe i have done it myself,without even realising it. To my dear friends,i am SORRY,really i am. It's damn hard to please people,trust me..being said so...to please ur friends. Mummy always tell me not to try to please everyone,but please yourself first...or else you'll end up being %^###@@!@**. HA ha ha
And there's also this one article i read a few months back,it was entitled Best Friend Bitch. Whoa,kinda harsh huh? She's the type who will come running after you when she is in deep sh*t! And also ditch you whenever she/he feels like it. What an idiot i must say,haha. I have yet to meet or know this kind of person. But have heard of some people who has that kind of perangai or nature of oneself. It's not worth it if you give in too much to one party,if he/she clearly don't really care or like i said take you for granted. It'd be better off being a loner,worst case. Just don't stay near to this kind of people. Not worth it.
How thankful I am to have such beautiful,beautiful friends.Well friends, without you people i may not be what i am today. May we strengthen our bond of friendship and give and take for all the things that come in our way as long as we live.
To Nana who's in Melaka~I miss you terribly T_T
To Diela~ Kapan mau ketemu lg?
To Alin~ May both of us continue to search for our soulmates! ahaks
To Ayu~ Always and forever will be my caring buddy!
To Afiura~My partner in crime..bile u nak kahwin???haha
To Fie~ Don't let your guard down,hon
To Leeza~ You are full of joy
To Hazira~ We need to catch up,badly! hehe
Btw,i haven't been posting for a looooooooong time.God knows when's the next post^_^
Till then,cheerios
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